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Not all stress is created equal. We all feel the pressure from time to time, whether we’re facing an uncertain situation or we’re interviewing for a new job. Stress can sometimes even help us to perform better, by giving us the adrenaline we need to feel motivated and overcome the obstacle that lies ahead.
But it’s important to recognise when stress has a negative impact on our mental health and wellbeing. Stress can be the barrier to your success, affecting your closest relationships, career, or social life. It can lead to burn out and an early exit from your work and life goals, and long-term stress is thought to have negative impacts on our physical wellbeing.
Taking the pressure off yourself, learning ways to relax and letting go of unhelpful thoughts can be beneficial to you. So, how can you spot when stress is getting in your way and how can you overcome it?
Do you feel overwhelmed by the tasks in front of you, not knowing where to start? Are you working overtime to try and prove yourself?
According to the NHS, stress can manifest both mentally and physically. Physically, you may experience headaches, muscle tension or pain. Mentally, you might be overcome with constant worry, find it hard to concentrate or struggle to make decisions. Stress can also affect your behaviour, making you irritable and causing you to avoid situations or have difficulty sleeping.
Recognising the signs that your body is experiencing stress that is detrimental to your health and wellbeing is the first step in being able to do something about it.
Overworking ourselves can lead to stress and burnout, often resulting in the opposite of the productivity you’re striving towards in the first place. Feeling overwhelmed by the amount you have to do can also end in you doing nothing, as you become paralysed by indecision and don’t know which task should be done first.
Whilst everything might feel urgent, it’s helpful to take a step back and prioritise your tasks. What must be done now, and what can wait? Is there anything you can hand off to someone else or ask for help with?
You could try these time-management tips to help you work out your goals, get organised and feel more relaxed.
Whilst small amounts of stress can have a positive impact if you’re trying to meet a deadline – giving you a burst of energy to get the job done for fear of failure – long-term stress can disrupt our ability to focus. Trying to do too much and having constant worries filling our mind leaves little room for focused work and relaxation.
Practising mindfulness lets us take a step back and focus on the present moment.
High levels of stress can keep us up at night and disrupt our sleeping pattern. This can lead to exhaustion, making it even more difficult for you to reach your goals, as you’ll have less energy and drive. Getting a good night’s sleep is crucial for our wellbeing. If you find yourself lying awake in the early hours of the morning, your mind racing with stressful thoughts, try getting up and taking your mind off negative thoughts by reading a book or putting your thoughts down on paper in a journal.
Turning your bedroom into a sleep sanctuary (link to blog) is a great way to help your mind to switch off from the day and get the well-deserved rest your body needs.
With our Wellbeing Support course, Stress less, achieve more, you’ll access professional support that will teach you the techniques you need to keep your mental wellbeing intact. You’ll be able to build positive habits that will enable you to enjoy the results for a long time.


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Working alongside Dr Yates, Paul ensures that services are well organised, accessible and delivered with care.
Paul oversees client relationships and supports the smooth running and development of YPS, helping individuals, families and organisations feel confident and supported from first contact onwards.
Paul’s focus includes:
Paul leads on client relationship management, service coordination and organisational development. Paul works closely with schools, families and partner organisations to ensure clarity of communication, timely delivery and high service standards.
He supports referral pathways, contractual arrangements and long-term partnership development, helping ensure services remain consistent, reliable and professionally delivered.
Outside of work, Paul’s main passion is Walking Football. He plays for East Devon, Devonshire County, and South West County. His biggest achievement is having trials with the Over 50s England Walking Football group in 2025. He also enjoys restoring and driving classic cars.
BSc Hons in Tourism Management, Tourism, and Business Management, MSc Psychology Conversion, MSc Occupational Psychology
Working under the clinical supervision of Dr Yvonne Yates, Joseph supports the assessment and development of psychological services across the organisation.
Joseph’s work focuses on:
He has a strong interest in evidence-based psychology and values clarity, structure and ethical practice.
Outside of work, Joseph enjoys spending time with his springer spaniel, Willow, and going for long walks with her and the family. When he can, he hits the ski slopes on his snowboard, and he also likes ice-skating.
HCPC-Registered Educational Psychologist | Founder, YPS Psychology Ltd
Dr Yates has speciailist expertise in ADHD, depression, anxiety, learning differences (SpLD), and emotional wellbeing with children, young people, and adults.
She holds a Doctorate in Psychology (University of Manchester) and has extensive experience delivering:
• Educational psychology assessments, including ADHD and SpLD
• Mental health assessment and therapy
• Social skills and emotional regulation support
Dr Yates has worked in public organisations, including, schools, the NHS, and local authorities, and in private practice, for universities, colleges, and therapy healthcare bodies, such as, AXA PPP and Bupa.
She is the author of Human Givens Therapy with Adolescents (Jessica Kingsley Publishers) and has published peer-reviewed research on adolescent wellbeing.
Her approach combines evidence-based psychology with practical, real-life strategies that help individuals feel calmer, more confident, and better equipped to succeed at school, university, and work.
Outside of work, Dr Yates is an avid crocheter and is also quite partial to silent discos. She looks forward to spending evenings by the fire, and watching movies with the family whilst creating her latest crochet piece.